Most onboarding checklists assume teams. When you are the entire team, the goal is to remove thinking for your customer and for you. This playbook walks through the four systems you need so every new account reaches the promised outcome without you waking up at 3 AM.

1. Define the first win in exact words

Write one sentence that finishes this prompt: “A trial is successful when the customer has ____ within ____ days.” If you cannot fill the blanks, you do not have an onboarding problem—you have a positioning problem.

Translate that sentence into milestones:

MilestoneEvidenceTooling
Account createdSignup event with email + roleAstro API + analytics
First habitCore action triggered 3×Product instrumentation
Value proofOutput delivered or data exportedEmail summary / webhooks

2. Script the concierge run-through

Before automating anything, run one customer through manually. Use a “concierge doc” that tracks:

  • What you did for them.
  • What they had to do alone.
  • Where they slowed or asked for help.

Time every step. Anything that takes you more than five minutes should trigger a workflow automation in the next iteration.

3. Automate just-in-time nudges

Stack three lightweight channels:

  1. In-app checklist built with a simple JSON file and rendered in your UI. Each item links directly to the screen that completes it.
  2. Lifecycle emails written like coaching prompts. Use a transactional provider or even Zapier Email to send them.
  3. Office hours block booked via Calendly twice a week for live interventions. You can delete it later when the product holds the hand-off alone.

Every message should answer “what now?” and “what if?” to teach the customer how to recover from mistakes.

4. Measure activation like a coach

Instrument a single boolean metric called isActivated. Set it to true when the customer hits the first win you defined earlier. Then export a shared Notion or Google Sheet that lists every active trial with:

  • Signup date
  • Current milestone
  • Last touchpoint sent
  • Blockers noted in their words

Review it daily. Reach out to anyone stalled longer than 48 hours with a Loom recording showing the next step. This is the highest-leverage teaching you can do, and it collapses churn before it materializes.

5. Teach with assets, not tickets

Record each coaching Loom and save it in a “Play Library” inside your app or help center. Tag it by persona, use case, and milestone. When a similar question appears, send the asset first, then answer live if needed. Depth beats breadth because you are compounding reusable lessons.

You now have an onboarding system that scales with or without you. Iterate it every month: pull the last 10 stalled accounts, interview them, and upgrade the scripts. Solopreneurs who treat onboarding as a ship-with-you experience keep the revenue they fought so hard to earn.